In practical terms, reciprocity is colour blind. It is stone deaf and neutral. It depends on what side of the fence one is. No one is absolutely a winner or a loser. It depends on how you play the game, or how well organized or disorganized you are in managing your affairs. Ethical considerations hardly arise. It is like a football game. If you are very well organized, motivated and are properly trained and co-ordinated in your moves, you are likely to score more goals and defeat your opponent.